Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Nothing can throw you off your game like a child. My children are a constant source of imbalance in my life. They are predictably unpredictable. And they are loud. You can try to train them, but ultimately you can't control them.
Richard Swenson says in his book In Search of Balance, "Even if perfect balance were attainable, it would be unwise to remain in that state continuously...A life that never experiences imbalance is one without growth and challenge."
So, a little imbalance can be good. Out of sheer necessity, my children push me to become a better person. Before having children I had many "profound" thoughts, but it is the reality of daily life in a family that helps deepen my soul.
What deepens your soul?